How long have Timothy Busfield and Melissa Gilbert been married? Relationship explored amid the ‘Thirtysomething’ actor facing sexual abuse charges

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Melissa Gilbert and Timothy Busfield (Image by Pascal Le Segretain/Getty)

Actor and director Timothy Busfield has been accused of s*xual abuse. According to a report by KOAT, he faces two counts of criminal s*xual contact of a minor and another count of child abuse. One of the accusers claimed that Busfield inappropriately touched them when they were seven. They were working with Busfield on The Cleaning Lady.

The media outlet mentions that the investigation began in November 2024. As per the court documents, the University of New Mexico Hospital told police officials that the children appeared to have been groomed. Initial accusations were that he had tickled the kids. Later, when they were interviewed further, they said that Busfield would also touch their privates. In a statement, Timothy Busfield previously said:

“I don't remember it… If it happened, I don't remember… But it wouldn't be uncommon for me.”

He claimed that the children were also given Christmas gifts. Moreover, he noted that the accusations only came forward because the children were not included in the new season of the show. According to a report by Parade, an arrest warrant has been issued for Timothy Busfield.

The director has been married to actress Melissa Gilbert for almost 13 years. According to People Magazine, they first crossed paths in a bar in 2012. Six years later, they shifted to New York City, and in 2019, they even bought a house. In 2020, the couple decided to start a podcast.

In 2022, Timothy Busfield and Melissa adopted a dog. The same year, they also celebrated their ninth wedding anniversary. In May 2022, Gilbert published a book that revolved around the relationship with her husband.


Melissa Gilbert recalls her first meeting with husband Timothy Busfield

Melissa Gilbert spoke to Kelly and Mark on their show in 2022, where she said that they celebrated their ninth anniversary. Speaking about the dress she wore, Gilbert said:

“Red is the dress you wear the third time, white's a little ironic.”

Kelly asked Gilbert how she met Timothy Busfield. Gilbert said:

“Yeah, I picked him up in a bar. 100% real. I met him a couple of times before.”

She went on to say:

“I was going out with my gay best friend and a bunch of friends. We were going disco dancing at Oil Can Harry’s at San Fernando Valley and we had some time to kill and there was this bar there and we just sort of landed in there and then they left because my friend Daniel had left his phone at my house long story.”

Gilbert said that she was sitting there by herself and enjoying her “nice little Cranberry Club.” She mentioned that a guy (Timothy Busfield) walked with a slice of pizza. This information took Mark by surprise, and he asked if Busfield really brought a pizza slice to Oil Can Harry’s. Gilbert clarified that Busfield brought pizza into the bar. She said:

“There’s a pizza place next to the bar so he would get pizza after work and take it in the bar drinking.”

Kelly said Timothy Busfield was a confident person. At the time, Gilbert said that he was directing the pilot episode of The Fosters. When asked if it was love at first sight, Gilbert said it was.

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Edited by Anuj Basak