Jennifer Lopez opened up about her relationship dealbreakers at her weekend show in Las Vegas. The songstress opened up about her love life just after she finished performing her 1999 smash hit "If You Had My Love." She told the masses at the arena that initially, she'd sing the song with hope. Over the years, however, she has also sing it when she's sad. Now, she said, she sings it in power. "Because the truth is, if you wanted to have my love, you would have to earn it. You would have to treat me right. You would have to respect me. You'd have to accept me for all that I am. You'd have to love me if you wanted my love." She continued, "You can't have love without heartbreak." Jennifer Lopez opens up about noticeable pattern in her failed romances: Read more View this post on Instagram Instagram PostJennifer Lopez's love life has long been scrutinised over the years. The singer, dancer, actress, and producer famously dated Sean "Diddy" Combs, married Chris Judd, dated, married, and divorced Ben Affleck, and was also married to Marc Anthony, among others. During a 2019 conversation with Harper's Bazaar, however, she opened up about a pattern she noticed: "For me, the relationship journey has been very up and down," she explained. "But it didn't have to do with anybody else but me — it was about me figuring out me. Until you learn to love yourself, you can't completely love (someone else) in a way that is pure and true," she told the magazine. "Once you do that, you can have relationships that are based on love and respect, that are supportive and nourishing." In August last year, an insider told Star Magazine that Jennifer Lopez was looking to date again, but she had two conditions in mind: a good matchmaker, and someone who can match her net worth. “There are only a handful of matchmakers in the world that cater to the top one percent, so they’re very pricey,” the insider said. “We’re talking upwards of a million dollars, but J.Lo has been told by a number of people that it’s worth spending the money. She’s ready to sign up and get some help.”The insider added, “She has very high expectations about who she wants to share her life with, they need to be super successful, handsome, and at the top of their game in every way. They don’t necessarily need to be worth more than she is, but she does want them to be in the same ballpark as she is when it comes to their net worth.” According to Celebrity Net Worth, Jennifer Lopez boasts a net worth of upwards of $400 million and a yearly salary of around $40 million.