Why is Matt Kalil suing his ex-wife? Former NFL star responds after Haley Kalil's NSFW claims about their marriage

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Matt Kalil | 2012 NFL Combine - Source: Getty

Matt Kalil is suing his ex-wife, Haley Kalil, after she publicly claimed that the size of his manhood played a role in their divorce.

In a TMZ report on Tuesday, Jan. 6, the former California Panthers star filed documents this week saying that the social media influencer's remarks have violated his privacy and tarnished his post-football reputation.

In the court documents, Matt Kalil claims that due to his ex-spouse's NSFW comments, he has endured:

"unwanted attention and invasive commentary from the public."
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Minnesota Vikings v Tennessee Titans - Source: Getty

The former NFL player added that even his family members:

"have been forced to endure the ongoing public circulation of these degrading and deeply personal statements."

He added that his new wife, Keilani Asmus, has also been subjected to messages that are:

"increasingly frequent, disturbing, and alarming in nature over time."

What did Haley Kalil reveal about her ex-husband Matt Kalil?

Recalling, Haley Kalil shared contentious insights about her marriage with Matt Kalil during her guest appearance on Marlon Garcia's Mar-Athon in November 2025.

In a clip, Haley Kalil opened up about her intimate life with her ex-husband, candidly revealing that his size was "the biggest factor" in their divorce. The influencer-model didn't say it out loud, but Marlon Garcia picked up on what she was implying.

When he asked her for clarification, Haley Kalil said:

"Dead ass, for our whole marriage, dead ass! But I was going to try it all: therapist, doctors. Not even lying. Looked up lipo-type s**t. That's why it's kinda funny. It's like my life is a comedy, and it kinda writes itself."
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31st Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards - Arrivals - Source: Getty

Garcia then asked if the former couple was able to be intimate with each other, the model answered:

"No. Because he was like 0.01% of the population. We tried everything. Impossible — unless, you know, you're gonna be in tears. He was like two Coke cans on top of each other, maybe even a third."

The comments would then result in Matt Kalil receiving a massive offer from the VP of the adult website CamSoda, who told the former athlete:

"You've shown you can take hits on the field and off and still stand tall, even when the claims are that rare '.01 percent of the population' situation. That’s exactly why we would like to offer you a $300,000 partnership to front our 'Big Confidence' campaign."

The exec continued:

"This campaign celebrates men who can laugh at themselves, own their story, and turn viral moments into empowerment. You would be featured in light-hearted, fun content about strength, positivity, and embracing life, and yes, all with unapologetic confidence."

Matt Kalil and Haley Kalil married in 2015, with a vow renewal in 2016, after dating for three years. They divorced in 2022.

The former NFL athlete remarried in April 2024 to model Keilani Asmus. They welcomed their first baby in August that year.

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Edited by Gladys Altamarino