Porsha Williams, the Real Housewives of Atlanta star, opened up about dating two people – a man and a woman following her divorce from Simon Guobadia.
During her appearance at CultureCon in New York City in October 2025, she said that they both are “nice” people. Although she did not reveal their identities to the crowd, she described how they are different from her past partners. She said:
“I really wanted to make sure these were normal people. And what I talked about with my therapist the other day was, I’m having a hard time opening up because they’re not narcissists.”

She added:
“And guess what narcissists do? They love bomb you. They do everything to look perfect. They mirror you.”
Porsha Williams was previously married to Guobadi, with whom she split in 2024. The couple has been married for two years since 2022.
Here are more details on their relationship.
Understanding the relationship timeline of Porsha Williams and Simon Guobadi
Porsha Williams met Simon Guobadia in 2020 at his now-defunct restaurant in Atlanta. He is a Nigerian entrepreneur, restaurateur, and entertainment industry investor. He is the founder and CEO of Simcol Petroleum Limited Company (SIMCOL) Group. It’s a company that supplies refined fuels in the Southeast United States.
Born on June 2, 1964, in Nigeria. He immigrated to the US in 1982. He earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in accounting from the University of District Columbia. According to People magazine, he was first married to Falynn Guobadia, the former cast member of Real Housewives of Atlanta. Their marriage lasted from 2019 to 2021.
In April 2021, Porsha Williams and Guobadia started dating, which was followed by their engagement in May 2021. Williams uploaded a selfie with her partner on Instagram and captioned it:
“Yes we are crazy in love. I know it's fast but we are living life each day to its fullest. I choose happiness every morning and every night.”

During this time, Williams also slammed cheating rumors, clarifying in an Instagram post that their relationship began after his divorce proceedings. She wrote:
“For all of you that need facts, I get the optics but Simon filed for divorce from a previous marriage in January. I had nothing to do with their divorce filing. That’s between the two of them. Falynn and I are not friends, and Simon’s divorce has been settled. Our relationship is a positive, loving step forward in everybody’s lives.”
Porsha Williams and Simon Guobadia tied the knot in a two-day wedding ceremony in November 2022. But in February 2024, Williams announced that their marriage had come to an end.
Speaking with Andy Cohen in March 2025, Williams said:
“You know, it’s something, when you been through so much with men lying to you or mistreating you and you meet someone who looks you in the eye and they say what they’re going to do and they do what they say they’re going to do you begin to trust them beyond whatever. And love wins, and sometimes love fails, and in this case, that’s what happened.”
They finalized their divorce in June 2025.
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