90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star Elizabeth tries to clear the air with Loren about her party

Elizabeth and Loren had a heated argument regarding a housewarming party and some nasty remarks made after it on a recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Concerns about friendship, trust, and whether some comments were inappropriate were at the center of the conversation. Loren believed that her repeated apologies for the party event involving her friend Noga and her husband Andrei weren't sufficient, despite Elizabeth's claims to the contrary.

The discussion continued after that. Concerns were voiced by Loren regarding comments made on a double date, specifically regarding Andrei's physical appearance and conversations that she felt were offensive. In response, Elizabeth talked about her own weaknesses, including postpartum depression, issues with body image, and how some remarks that were meant to be encouraging instead came out as criticism.

The result was a battle tinged with regret and frustration. While Elizabeth and Loren didn’t declare that everything was perfect between them, they recognized the value of their former friendship, thanked one another for helping them to arrive at today, and agreed to communicate better in the future. 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? spares no punches in showing how friendship gives and takes, in both empathy and honesty, when push comes to shove.

The conflict over the party & comments felt harder than expected on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

The housewarming party became a test of Elizabeth and Loren's friendship rather than merely a celebration on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Loren was disrespected when one of Elizabeth's friends got into a fight with Andrei, and Elizabeth claims she has since taken responsibility for the incident and apologized numerous times.

However, reconciliation was more difficult than either party anticipated due to the deluge of fitness-related remarks, conflicting messages, and delicate subjects like postpartum difficulties.

Trust, apologies, and the party fallout

Elizabeth started by admitting that Noga and Andrei had been involved in the party incident. She apologized, saying she had done so multiple times, but Loren didn't think the gestures were enough. Elizabeth emphasized that she didn't mean to offend Loren or discredit Andrei; she just wanted the party to be enjoyable, but she was aware of how quickly things got out of hand.

However, 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?'s Loren warned Elizabeth that the harm caused by such incidents frequently persists. She claimed that the housewarming argument increased her sense of betrayal, not because the altercation was particularly serious but rather because Elizabeth's friend was involved, and she felt disregarded when the apology was given. The conversation made clear that when foundational trust is broken, apologies don't always make things better.

Comments, vulnerabilities & moving forward

Loren claimed that she was offended by the remarks Andrei made during a double date, as well as by other things Elizabeth overlooked. She claimed that comments about her beauty and level of fitness came across to her as subtle criticism rather than encouragement. Elizabeth retorted that Loren's perception was inconsistent with her intentions and that she had utilized fitness talk to encourage rather than to embarrass.

Elizabeth also talked about her own vulnerabilities, including postpartum depression, body image issues, and feeling obligated to be a supportive spouse and ideal friend.

“I didn’t expect the fitness stuff to hurt you like it did,” she said, pleading for understanding.

Although Loren appreciated the candor, he also warned Elizabeth that occasionally, remarks made in jest or as support can backfire. Although they both acknowledged that their friendship now needs more tolerance and defined boundaries, they both agreed that neither of them wanted to break off their relationship.

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