Did you also think 90 Day Fiancé star Sarper's weight clause for Shekinah in their prenup was beyond offensive?

90 Day Fiancé Season 11 stars Sarper Güven and Shekinah Garner's prenup has caught viewers by surprise, yet again. The latest episode of the show's season 11 featured Sarper mentioning an additional clause in their agreement.

He stated that Shekinah was to be fined $1,000 for each pound she would gain over 128 lbs. While she said it was his way of getting back at her, and that she was not going to put on weight. However, her friends and viewers disagreed with Shekinah.

Instead of being open and serious about the prenup, Sarper came up with a way of mocking the agreement, which was very offensive. On top of that, Shekinah's reaction to his idea was even more shocking. Not only Sarper's demand to control Shekinah's body, but also a form of humiliation. The fact that 90 Day Fiancé star Shekinah didn't seem to think so was an even bigger red flag.

90 Day Fiancé Season 11: Sarper's mocking of the prenup agreement has reached its limit

While a prenup protects both parties in a marriage, it surely is not a means of humiliating either of them. But, 90 Day Fiancé star Sarper doesn't seem to be taking it seriously at all. Instead of thinking it through and trying to understand the bigger picture of how the agreement would protect his assets as well, he has turned it into a manipulative tool.

Earlier on 90 Day Fiancé, when the duo met and began their relationship, fans may have noticed how he weighed Shekinah. While it is a good thing to be fit and maintain a healthy weight, such behavior is clearly an example of emotional manipulation

Seeing such behavior from Sarper only highlights his insecurity and desire to control his partner. Since the duo's relationship began to blossom, viewers have witnessed a complex mix of emotions between them. There have been many cultural differences between Sarper and Shekinah, which have eventually turned into controlling tendencies.

As for Shekinah, she is often seen as letting such unacceptable behavior from Sarper, over time. A healthy relationship should not be based on meeting superficial standards.

While Shekinah was not that bothered by such behavior from Sarper, her friends surely expressed their concerns.

Additionally, 90 Day Fiancé fans have also voiced their concerns through social media platforms.

Talking about Sarper's condition to add the weight clause in their prenup, a fan wrote on X:

"Did Sarper just suggest a WEIGH IN?! 128 lbs?!!?! I would cry. As someone who has Body Dysmorphic Disorder, This triggered me. #90DayFiance @90DayFiance #Sarper #Shekinah."

Another fan commented:

"Sarper wants to FINE Shedkinah $1000 dollars every time she gains a pound over 128 lbs? The fact that men like this can always seem to find a woman who they can disrespect is insane. WTF #90dayfiance."

Witnessing such unexpected and offensive behavior toward Shekinah was a clear display of control on the part of Sarper. While she laughed it off, it was something that needed a more serious and mature discussion.

It was truly infuriating and heartbreaking to witness such a petty demand from Sarper, especially when it was added to a legal document.

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