Friends is filled with iconic scenes and unforgettable moments that fans still quote, meme, and revisit with binge rewatches. But what if one major storyline never made it past the planning stage?
Believe it or not, the easy going, goofy friendship between Joey and Phoebe was once imagined as something far more romantic, even a little sneaky. Had this one cut idea made it into the show, Friends would've looked a lot different. And we don't just mean a few extra kisses. It would have changed relationships, shifted dynamics, and potentially disrupted the whole balance of the group.
So, what exactly was this storyline? And why didn't it happen? Let's break down what could have been one of Friends' most unexpected plot twists.
Joey and Phoebe’s secret romance in Friends: The one with the idea never making it out of the writers' room
Behind the scenes of Friends, Matt LeBlanc and Lisa Kudrow once pitched a story line that would have shocked fans. They wanted Joey and Phoebe to have been secretly hooking up throughout the entire show.
Yes, you read that right. The proposal wasn't just for a brief arc but for a full blown hidden affair that would've been revealed near the end of the series.
Speaking to People in 2015, LeBlanc said the idea was to go back and reshoot key scenes to make it seem like Joey and Phoebe had been together all along. He explained;
"Right before everyone finds out, they come out of a broom closet together..."
The goal? A dramatic, funny twist that would change how fans looked at their entire story.
But the writers didn't go for it. They liked Joey and Phoebe the way they were. David Crane, co-creator of Friends, told Metro that it;
"...Would have been too tidy and too complete."
He felt that making every character end up with someone from the group would have taken away the essence of the show. He added;
"It would be really easy to go down that road but I think we all felt it would be a mistake."
This idea, as wild as it sounds, was scrapped. But its impact? Huge. Because if it had moved forward, another couple on the show might not have happened at all.
The one with Monica and Chandler’s love story needing the space
Fans love Ross and Rachel, but it is Friends' other power couple, Monica and Chandler, who had the most genuine evolution. Their journey from a surprise hookup to a real relationship and eventually to parenthood was one of the show's biggest emotional arcs.
That relationship might not have had the same depth if Joey and Phoebe had become a couple.
The idea of Joey and Phoebe as a romantic duo, especially with their casual vibes, could have shifted the spotlight. Their scenes might've overtaken or even clashed with Monica and Chandler's storyline.
The contrast would've been jarring. One couple slowly growing stronger, the other hooking up behind everyone's back? It risked making things messy and losing emotional weight.
More importantly, the writers didn't want to repeat patterns. Crane explained they had to be on their A game while not trying to give every single friend the same romantic pairing.
Monica and Chandler's arc had to be different from Ross and Rachel's and it was. Adding a third couple just for dramatic effect and to get a few laughs could have forced the show into predictable territory which the writers did not seem to want.
And let's not forget the fact that Joey and Phoebe did afterall have chemistry. They shared lunches, jokes, and even a few kisses over the years. Kudrow once teased that they'd "end up together." But in the end, Phoebe found Mike and Joey moved on in his own way.
Friends is the iconic sitcom that it is today because it knew when to jump into emotion and when not to. The decision not to let Joey and Phoebe be romantically involved wasn't just about what worked on paper. It was about protecting the balance of six very different characters. Letting Joey and Phoebe stay best friends honored the spirit of the show and of their characters.
By skipping a third in-group romance, the show avoided being too neat. The friendships remained at the heart of it all. And sometimes, what doesn't happen tells us just as much as what does.
For the show, that one cut storyline was the best decision they never made.