When individuals have asked me which of the Friends couples I enjoy, I kind of stall—because to give "Chandler and Janice" as an answer is to admit to drinking orange juice after brushing one's teeth. But if you held me at gunpoint, I'd hold steady. Chandler Bing and Janice Litman-Goralnik, the very same Janice who made everyone else on the show wince and whose scenes she walked into and they would burst for sheer sonic greatness, are the ones I just can't help but roll my eyes at.
No, I am not kidding. It's perhaps, possibly sarcasm, à la one of those snarky comments Redditors add just to elicit outrage in the comments—so just stick with me. Ross and Rachel were too caught up in getting "a break" from one another, and Monica and Chandler were too caught up in being the wholesome endgame couple, while I was relegated to being somehow forever wedded to the loudest, most unbalanced couples on the show.
I mean, what other couple had that kind of comedic potential and that kind of sheer, unadulterated craziness? Chandler could have attempted to get rid of Janice as frequently as a human being would ever get a chance to, but somewhere in the recesses of his own head, some part of him understood—as much of us all now understand—the feeling that there was something about her.
Janice was never supposed to be a regular character in Friends, but she ended up being one
So buckle your seatbelts, people. Let's go back in time. Maggie Wheeler's favorite character, Janice, was never a series regular on Friends. She was always meant to be a one-time joke in Season 1—a punchline about Chandler's awful love life. But something broke. Her laugh? Legendary. Her entrances? Iconic. Her spark? Irreplaceable.
Instead of being lost to the whims of sitcom history, Janice returned—again and again. And with every comeback, she returned with the same unapologetic attitude, as a leopard-printed human siren. It was all a joke at first, but then it became a whole hell of a lot more than that. Janice was one of the show's few recurring characters, on every season except Season 6.
Even when Chandler attempted to flee from her, she merely reappeared. That is not a running gag; that is dedication. And part of me believes that she was the only person within the Friends world who never did anything out of her way to be a part of the group. That is strange. That is independent.
Their chemistry in Friends was dysfunctional—and that's why it worked
On paper, Chandler and Janice were a disaster. He was commitment-phobic, sarcastic, and allergic to emotional intimacy. She was clingy, intrusive, and couldn't enter a room without the room folding in on itself. But miraculously, somehow, by some magic that could never be described, the entire set made it through. Janice loved Chandler—loved him deeply, really loved him—in an unsophisticated way.
She didn't try to fix him. She liked his neuroses, his panic attacks, and even his obnoxious break-up strategies regarding fake military deployment. There's something wholesome and just plain weird about that. In a show in which love was never easy and never so complicated, Janice gave them one that was raucous and uncomplicated.
Janice loved Chandler. Chandler did not show that he like that, but he did. He just decided to lie to everyone. Their relationship might have been truer than some of the show's biggest romances. Because not all relationships have to be flawless to be memorable. It just need to be honest, and their honesty was ridiculous.
Janice was one of the most unapologetic characters on Friends
What I loved most about Janice? She never attempted to tone it down. Ever. In the era of precisely crafted personas (yes, even Phoebe had personas she dropped for approval), Janice was never in doubt. Bellowing, nasal, larger-than-life—and unapologetic to boot. She never softened around Chandler, or around any of the friends. She wore her personality like a badge of honor, and if you disapproved, she had three words for you: "Oh. My. God." And yet, for all the principal six's punchlines and heart-stopping meltdowns, Janice never once departed through the stage door.
She never departed on other people's terms. And perhaps that is the reason why people have grown to enjoy her more. In hindsight, she is no longer such a caricature figure but a completely genuine person who dared to be herself in a world that never stopped criticising her. And who of us would not want to possess such confidence?
Chandler and Janice left an impression on Friends viewers that won't go away
Let's be real here. Chandler and Janice were never going to work. They weren't even created as the finale couple of the show. And yet, the greatest couples are the ones who do the absolute opposite of what it says on paper. Chandler had so much character over the years, but with Janice, he was the most neurotic we'd ever see him be—and it was comedy gold.
Whether it was the moment when he made fun of him moving to Yemen ("Yemen?! That's in Yemen!") or the moment when he winced at her laugh, those were etched into our collective consciousness. And through all the break-ups, he continued to show up. That's something. It isn't love in the sappy, moonlight, Friends-season-finale kind of way, but it was there. It was gross. It was off-color. And this is the kind of dirty chemistry that made Friends so great to begin with.
Reddit doesn't lie—fans are re-evaluating Janice in Friends
The first Reddit thread that started all of this provided individuals with a holy ground to come out and confess their dirty little secrets. That Chandler and Janice were legendary. That Janice wasn't annoying—she was brilliant. That maybe, just maybe, the perfect Friends couple wasn't held together with emotional compatibility, but in the form of utter and complete chaos. When Reddit users chimed in with nostalgic agreement, it demonstrated that this wasn't a fleeting hot take.
It was an epiphany. And it makes sense. In 2025, we’re rewatching shows with new eyes. We’re no longer just seeing Janice as “the annoying one.” We’re seeing her as a woman who knew what she wanted, who wasn’t afraid to show emotion, and who loved Chandler in a way no one else really did. And honestly? That’s more romantic than a thousand lobster metaphors.
They were never endgame, but they were never forgettable
I know Monica was Chandler’s “true love,” and I’m not here to rewrite canon. But I’ll say this—Monica helped Chandler grow up, while Janice let him be exactly who he was, without judgment. And perhaps, just perhaps, that is worth a little more respect. Because Chandler and Janice were not about maturity or stability, or even growth. They were about timing, chemistry, and uncontrollable laughter.
And in a season all about finding "The One," perhaps those who never do manage to get up the aisle are worth just as much. So binge your 2 a.m. Reddit browsing, because someone somewhere is still arguing over Chandler Bing and Janice Litman-Goralnik. And maybe, just maybe, they're your other top Friends couple as well.