“I just don’t like it. It doesn't fit my vision”: 90 Day Fiance's Shekinah sobs over disappointing wedding hotel room

Shekinah and Sarper from 90 Day Fiance. Image via Instagram /@sarper90day
Shekinah and Sarper from 90 Day Fiance. Image via Instagram /@sarper90day

When it comes to weddings, expectations run high, especially for someone like Shekinah, who’s had a clear picture of her dream day all along. But on 90 Day Fiance, reality doesn’t always align with fantasy. And as the big day approached, Shekinah was hit with a massive wave of disappointment. A hotel room she thought would be the perfect backdrop for her intimate ceremony turned out to be anything but.

“This is like not what I wanted. It’s not my style,” she said, overwhelmed with emotion.

What was meant to be a dreamy wedding day with Sarper on 90 Day Fiance quickly unraveled the moment they stepped into the room. It wasn’t long before Shekinah, overcome with stress and frustration, broke down in tears, saying:

“I just don’t like it. It doesn’t fit my vision.”

Shekinah’s dream wedding day crumbles on 90 Day Fiance

From the start, Shekinah had a unique idea for her wedding, getting married in bed!

That wasn’t just a quirky preference; it was part of a larger vision she’d held onto throughout her 90 Day Fiance journey.

The scene she imagined included “a lot of beautiful natural light, a really beautiful majestic bed.” In her words, she wanted the setting to be “elegant,” “sexy,” “classy,” “unique,” and above all “beautiful.”

But the moment she walked into the actual hotel room, her reaction was immediate.

“I hate how worn out this room looks. Wow, it looks rough. This is making me really sad. I don’t like it,” she said, surveying the space with a mix of disbelief and heartbreak.

Even Sarper, who tried to stay optimistic, couldn't do much to ease the situation.


Chandeliers and crushed hopes: A vision gone wrong

For Shekinah, the devil was in the details, or lack of them. She’d seen pictures of chandeliers and luxury online. What she got instead was a room that didn’t match the images at all.

“The way that I envision my wedding is- A gorgeous big bed, under beautiful chandeliers, which I saw in the pictures online,” she explained.

But those chandeliers?

“They’re over a dining room table not a bed. The bed is in whole another room.”

It wasn’t just a layout issue. The wear and tear of the room added to her disappointment.

“The floors are just destroyed. The decor is old and run down. Like everything is wrong with this picture,” she said.

As the reality of the room clashed with what she’d imagined, the mood in the space grew heavier. While Sarper attempted to comfort her with a gentle:

“Baby, it’s good,”

it wasn’t enough to lift Shekinah’s sinking heart.


Dreams and Visions meet the 90 Day Fiance finale

As the couple reached the final stretch of their 90 Day Fiance journey, Shekinah’s heartbreak wasn’t just about bad decor. It was about a dream slipping through her fingers at the worst possible moment.

She tried to hold it together, but eventually the emotions took over.

“I just don’t like it, it doesn’t fit my vision,” she said through tears, clearly overwhelmed.

Speaking to the camera, she laid it all out:

“We’re at the end of the 90 days and this is the place that we’ve chosen to have the wedding and I just see that it doesn’t fit my vision and I don’t see the solution to these problems.”

Her disappointment wasn’t about being picky. It was about a vision that had carried her through the chaos of 90 Day Fiance, now clashing with an unfixable reality.

“I just feel like all of my dreams and visions for this special day are being destroyed by the reality of this room,” she admitted.

Sarper tries to calm the storm, but it’s a losing battle

Throughout the 90 Day Fiance scene, Sarper kept his tone calm. He offered soft reassurances like “Of course” and “Baby…” but his words didn’t quite land. The room wasn’t just a room, it had become a symbol of the disconnect between Shekinah’s dream and the day they were about to cherish.

The mood between the two was tense but loving. Sarper didn’t argue or shut down Shekinah’s feelings. Instead, he stood by quietly, giving space to the storm.

It’s a dynamic that fans of 90 Day Fiance are all too familiar with, one partner holding on to a big dream, the other just trying to keep things steady. In this case, no amount of reassurance could bridge the gap between Shekinah’s vision and what she was seeing.


As Shekinah and Sarper stood on the edge of their wedding day, the question isn’t just whether the room fits her vision. It’s whether they can adapt when things don’t go as planned.

In the world of 90 Day Fiance, where love is tested by timelines, paperwork, and cultural clashes, sometimes it’s the unexpected that shakes things the most. A hotel room may not seem like a dealbreaker, but for Shekinah, it symbolized everything she hoped this day would be.

Edited by Yesha Srivastava