The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16 aired on October 23, 2025. It featured cast members including Jenn, Shannon Storms Beador, Emily Simpson, Tamra Judge, Gretchen Kirschenheiter, and more.
Bravo show's latest episode featured a conversation between Heather, Emily, Gina, and Tamra Judge. Later, Gretchen and others also joined. It started when Tamra shared her honest feelings about Gretchen. The two had some issues, which Emily tried to resolve.
Tamra noted that she felt bugged and talked about Gretchen:
"I'm bugged now...I'm not gonna say anything to her (Gretchen), I'm just bugged."
Listening to her, fellow cast members Heather and Gina told her not to feel that way.
The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16: Tamra Judge talks to fellow housewives about Gretchen
The latest episode featured cast members visiting the tulip fields. While exploring the fields, there was some tension between Tamra and Gretchen.
Seeing the two, fellow housewife Emily tried to resolve the situation and the differences the two felt. The official synopsis of The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16 reads:
"As the Amsterdam trip continues, the ladies visit the famous tulip fields where Jenn and Shannon's friendship is called into question; Emily tries to broker peace between Tamra and Gretchen, which leads to an emotional and surprising realization."
After their trip, some of the cast members met. While Gretchen was not there, Tamra shared that she felt bugged. But she was not going to say anything to Gretchen. Listening to Tamra, Heather told her not to feel that way. Heather said:
"I don't think it had anything to....I don't think it was about you."
Fellow The Real Housewives of Orange County star, Gina, added that Gretchen was "very upset" on her ride home. Tamra talked about Gretchen and how she should take accountability. She also asked if Gretchen talked to her partner, Slade. Gina said yes.
On the other hand, Gretchen FaceTimed Slade and opened up about how she felt. She shared that she was having a little meltdown. She noted that she was trying to move forward and got emotional. Slade replied:
"Everything that's happened in the past, you should just...at this point, just let it go. There's obviously emotional issues on both sides...but if she's willing to work things out...I know for a fact that you'd have interest in doing that."
In her private confession, The Real Housewives of Orange County star Gretchen noted that there was a lot of pain. She also noted that it still affected her. Gretchen added:
"When I call my spirit guides, my guardian angels are literally giving me warnings, to not trust her (Tamra). You think you're in a beautiful field of tulips, and you're just walking along, and comes a snake and harms you."
On the other hand, the conversation between Tamra, Heather, Emily, and Gina continued. Heather and Gina told Tamra that Gretchen was genuine, while Tamra felt otherwise. Soon, additional cast members also joined the group, including Gretchen.
After Gina asked Gretchen how she was doing, she whispered to Emily to ask the same. However, Emily whispered back that it should be Tamra who should be asking Gretchen that.
Bravo now streams the recently released The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16.