Married At First Sight Season 19 Episode 12 was released on November 13, 2025. It featured couples, including Pat-Rhonda, Belynda-Chad, Brittany-Will, Meghann-Derrek, and Jalyn-Josh. The latest episode featured a conversation between Pat and Rhonda. She asked Pat about being himself while he was around her. In response, Pat noted that it was not unique to her. There were many components related to expectations from when he was young. Pat opened up about the pressure and expectations, and told Rhonda:"In relationships, I was trying to be...you know, the best husband or the best father...the best you know...and I put a lot of pressure on myself to do that. So, in some ways, that's where I lost myself before, and it feels like it's happening again. And I will say I felt a lot of pain in this experience. I felt a lot of anxiety. I felt a lot of emotions in this experience, and those are not myself, you know."Married At First Sight Season 19 Episode 12: Pat opens up about his past, family background, expectations, being under pressure, and more View this post on Instagram Instagram PostRecently released Married At First Sight Season 19 episode featured a deep conversation between Rhonda and Pat. She asked him about being his authentic self while around her, and why he couldn't be. "I'm just curious like why do you feel like, I'm just curious, why do you feel like you can't be yourself around me," said Rhonda. Responding to Rhonda, he noted that it was not only around her. There were a lot of components and expectations from when he grew up. Because of certain situations, there was a lot of pressure on him. "You know, there were a lot of expectations of me growing up. There was a lot of pressure I'd put on myself to...you know...beat those expectations," shared Pat. View this post on Instagram Instagram PostIn his private confession, Married At First Sight star noted that his family was an Air Force poster family. Pat recalled his grandfather, who was a Colonel, and his dad, a General. He also wanted to attend the Air Force Academy. "Because I really, really wanted to make my dad proud," confessed Pat. He added that in his past relationships, he tried to be the best husband and the best father. To do that, he put a lot of pressure on himself. In the process, he lost himself. Pat told Rhonda that he was feeling the same might be happening again. Referring to the experience the two had joined, Pat admitted that he felt a lot of pain and anxiety. Married At First Sight star Rhonda told him that pain was part of life. When Rhonda asked him whether he felt like being himself, Pat said yes.Further in their conversation, Rhonda noted that she had a question she wanted to ask him. To know more about Pat and Rhonda's journey, fans can stream Married At First Sight Season 19 on Peacock.