Julia talks about her visit to the fertility clinic with her family on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

On 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Julia Trubkina revealed plenty about one of the most private periods of her life, bringing viewers into a reproductive clinic with her family. Discussions of medical procedures, deadlines, and the bigger question of whether Julia and Brandon want to have kids at all took center stage in the stressful and emotional moment.

At the visit, the doctors recommended removing a uterine polyp — Julia’s first experience with anesthesia. She said that this added to her worry because she was also worried about health effects and whether 'doing something' would make her more pregnant than if she did nothing. Rather than rush into treatment, the pair was told to think long and hard about their options at home.

This candid conversation brought to light the emotional toll of making family planning decisions under duress, in addition to the medical component. For Julia, the experience was about claiming her independence while juggling the expectations of her family and spouse, not only about becoming a parent.

Julia gets candid about her struggles with pregnancy in 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Season 9 Episode 11

Fertility concerns and medical recommendations

During Julia's examination, doctors found a uterine polyp and recommended its surgical removal under anesthesia. Since she had never had such a treatment done before, Julia acknowledged that she was anxious. The physicians cautioned that although it would increase her chances of getting pregnant, there was no guarantee of success.

Medical professionals urged 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? stars Julia and Brandon to consider their options in private, whether that meant continuing fertility therapy or choosing not to have children at all, rather than pressuring them into treatment right away.

"They might tell us to talk in the home, not just give right decision, because that is not like just you go there and doing that," Julia said.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? couple was also warned by the experts that time is an issue in fertility planning, even though Julia is still in her early 30s. Though they noted that waiting too long could limit alternatives later, they emphasized that decisions shouldn't be hurried. An already emotional situation was made even more stressful by this well-balanced advice, which left Julia divided between her personal reluctance and the medical options.

Balancing pressure, choice, and relationship dynamics

Julia's insistence on having the last say over her body was the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? episode's most notable aspect. She stated that she was under a lot of pressure to undertake reproductive treatments and surgery, particularly when she was the one taking the physical risks.

During the conversation, Julia made the unexpected admission that she did not want children, at least not now.

"We have two options. First start to treatment, or second decide to be never going to have a kid and that is our decision."

Her family was shocked at this revelation, as they had never heard her assert her position so strongly. Visibly taken aback, Brandon repeated his vow to be there for her in “any type of treatment or surgery” along with whatever happens after that, if she chooses it.

An unresolved conflict emerged from the conversation: striking a balance between Julia's independence and the couple's shared life goals. Fans were left wondering how Julia and Brandon would eventually reconcile their divergent views on starting a family because no final decision had been made in the plot.

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Stay tuned to TLC to find out how Julia and Brandon work their issues out on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

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