But when Monica was forced to decide between her two Brazilian matches, Bernardo and Bruno, in the Season 2 finale of Match Me Abroad, it was one of the show’s most devastating moments yet. “Up in Smoke,” the 12th episode, positioned the ending of her journey as a poignant one. Both had taught her much during her time abroad, about self-discovery and love.
With matchmaker Luiza Vono Ferreira’s help, Monica was prepared to close one chapter of her life and embark on a new beginning with the man she felt offered the best possibility for lasting love. Contrast the very visible strain Bruno’s extending himself put him through in the first half of that, to the even easier way Bernardo was wearing it.
In the end, Monica made her choice in front of them both, using language that conveyed her appreciation and clarity. What transpired was a mixture of joy and heartache, illustrating both the dangers of love and the benefits of trusting your gut.
Why Monica picked Bruno over Bernardo in Match Me Abroad Season 2 Episode 12
While Bernardo stood for comfort and stability, Bruno highlighted Monica's development and bravery during their time with her on Match Me Abroad. Choosing Bruno was an act of respect for the relationship that had greater potential, not of rejecting Bernardo. She demonstrated in the finals that she was prepared to risk a future based on transparency, even if it meant eschewing comfort.
The emotional weight of Monica’s choice
Monica has undergone a metamorphosis over Season 2, discovering how to accept vulnerability and take chances in romantic relationships. Her experience was affected by both Bruno and Bernardo, but when the time came, she leaned into the man who helped her feel supported and seen in a way that aligned with her changing perspective.
While making her choice, Monica reflected,
“I am a different person because of them. But I know that there is one here that has a lot of potential. And so just to see where it goes, I’m gonna choose Bruno.”
Match Me Abroad's Monica's appreciation for both men and her confidence in pursuing the relationship that offered her the most promise were both encapsulated in these comments.
Bruno's response, which was one of relief and sincere delight, demonstrated how much he had put in. The decision for Monica was more about selecting her own development with a partner who shared her emotional openness than it was about rejecting Bernardo.
Aftermath — Apologies, confession, and new beginnings
The immediate aftermath of the decision was both tense and moving. Excited, Bruno sealed the occasion by softly kissing Monica's hand, symbolically beginning their adventure together. But Bernardo, unable to conceal his dismay, sat there in shock. Match Me Abroad star turned to face him and said,
"I'm so sorry."
The disparity in responses highlighted how important her choice was. Bruno gave her something she wasn't prepared to give up, possibility, while Bernardo stood for steadiness.
The bittersweet reality of love overseas was encapsulated in the finale: you can't choose both, and the decision inevitably hurts someone. Yet Monica’s path felt like the truest reflection of the growth she had undergone throughout the season.
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