My Youth episodes 3 and 4 review — Slow burn revelations, tender bonds, and the hidden pain of legacy

Promo image for My Youth | Image via: Viki
Promo image for My Youth | Image via: Viki

The delicate slow burn of My Youth continues burn across episodes 3 and 4, weaving a slice-of-life rhythm that feels both soothing and, at times, overstretched. For those of us who enjoy dramas that breathe instead of rush, there’s charm in the gentle pace. Still, it may test the patience of viewers expecting a quicker progression.

These two latest chapters carry the weight of memory, romance, and family wounds that refuse to heal, balancing the sweetness of blossoming relationships with the shadows of the past.

My Youth - Photos | Image via: JTBC | Collage by: Beatrix Kondo of Soap Central
My Youth - Photos | Image via: JTBC | Collage by: Beatrix Kondo of Soap Central

The fragile warmth of the main couple

By now, My Youth has already taken its central couple into tender territory. They exchange a kiss and evoke past memories, their connection gentle and recognizable, filled with the bittersweet radiance of former times and hopes for what might still unfold.

Rather than intense emotion, the series embraces reluctance and subtle movements, allowing silence to linger between phrases. It’s a type of romance that encourages us to pause and appreciate the nuances we might typically miss.

A secondary love beginning to bloom

Alongside the main pair, My Youth offers the tentative steps of a secondary couple. Their moments are light, endearing, and full of that early awkwardness that makes new love so irresistible.

Even in a drama that sometimes stretches its scenes too long, these sparks give texture to the narrative and keep the emotional rhythm from becoming too heavy.

My Youth and the cruelty of legacy

Flashbacks remain part of the storytelling, though less intrusive than in the first two episodes. They reveal the reason behind the male lead’s withdrawn demeanor: the devastating loss of his mother to suicide, and the cruel way society attacks him not for his own mistakes but for the tragedies of his family.

My Youth doesn’t shy away from showing how relentless judgment can scar those who never asked for such burdens. It’s a reminder of the cruelty faced by anyone in the public eye, where personal identity becomes inescapably tied to family history.

A quote that carries weight

Amidst the slow pace, one line captures the essence of these episodes: “Just because it sparkles, not everything is a jewel.”

It resonates as both a warning and a truth about appearances, fame, and even relationships. My Youth seems intent on peeling away the glitter to reveal what’s real underneath, whether in love, in family, or in one’s place in the world.

Song Joong-ki attends the "Hwa-Ran (Hopeless)" photocall at the 76th annual Cannes film festival at Palais des Festivals on May 25, 2023 in Cannes, France | Image via: Getty
Song Joong-ki attends the "Hwa-Ran (Hopeless)" photocall at the 76th annual Cannes film festival at Palais des Festivals on May 25, 2023 in Cannes, France | Image via: Getty

Song Joong-Ki’s transformation

For those of us who first saw Song Joong-Ki in Vincenzo, watching him in My Youth is a striking shift. Instead of sharp edges and menace, he brings softness, awkwardness, and romantic hesitation.

His performance underscores the versatility of his craft, showing how he can move from calculated intensity to endearing fragility. It’s a pleasure to see him embrace vulnerability with such ease.

The rhythm that soothes and strains

At nearly two and a half hours combined, episodes 3 and 4 of My Youth test the balance between immersion and indulgence. The leisurely flow invites relaxation, a chance to settle into the characters’ world.

However, it also risks dragging in stretches that might have been more impactful if shortened. It’s a trade-off: comfort at the cost of momentum.

Rating with a touch of flair: 4 out of 5 blossoms caught between memory and desire.

Edited by Beatrix Kondo