"Just broke me so much": 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja opens up about her previous relationship

The latest episode of TLC's 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' seventh season aired on December 22, 2024. It featured one of the cast members, Vanja, exploring her connection with her new partner, Josko. She found Josko on a dating app after she broke up with Bozo.

While Josko shared his feelings for 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja, he was worried that she might not feel the same way. His concerns were that he was a single dad and was fostering a son.

Instead, after learning about him raising a son by himself, Vanja shared that she was surprised and felt that he was very "honorable" of him.

Later, Vanja opened up about how, in her previous relationship, her partner had a child, and it was very hard for her after they broke up.

"I dated somebody and he had a daughter and I essentially watched her grow up for five years and when our relationship ended, the fact that I could no longer see her, just broke me so much more," shared Vanja.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja shares about her ex-partner's daughter and how things were hard for her after the breakup

The 17th episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days featured Vanja opening up about one of her previous relationships, where her partner had a daughter. The incident happened after her current connection; Josko shared his feelings about Vanja and told her she was "the one" for him and his son.

Fans witnessed Josko opening up to Vanja about him fostering a son.

"I mean this is our third date and I already know that you're the one. You're the one for me and you're the one for him," shared Josko.

However, Vanja had concerns that she might not be able to be a good mother to his son.

"What if I don't have enough to give?" asked Vanja.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star, Vanja mentioned that it was scary for her to date someone who was a parent. She also shared a reason behind that, noting that one of her previous relationships was with a partner and a daughter.

Vanja mentioned that she witnessed the daughter growing up for about five years and shared a bond. However, things didn't work out well when they broke up. Vanja added that being unable to be with the daughter "broke" her "so much more."

However, Josko said that he was sure about Vanja because he knew that she had enough love to become an "amazing mom." He said:

"I have a good feeling and my feeling has never betrayed me so..."

Vanja was in a dilemma because she didn't want to have children or become a stepmother. She also didn't want to leave Josko. During the episode, she referred to the situation as "a lot."