Sister Wives season 20 episode 4 recap: Christine discusses her son, Brendon’s military life, while Meri explores dating apps

Sister Wives stars Christine and Meri | Image via Instagram/ @christine_brownsw @therealmeribrown
Sister Wives stars Christine and Meri | Image via Instagram/ @christine_brownsw @therealmeribrown

Sister Wives Season 20 Episode 4 mainly follows two ladies from the Brown family through a period of intense emotion and change. Christine's talk with her son Paedon, who is preparing to relocate to North Carolina following a military chapter, highlights yet another shift in the family's dynamics.

With friends accompanying her, Meri ventures into the uncharted territory of online dating apps, providing a lighter yet equally illuminating look at her current position in this next phase of her life. These parallel plotlines emphasize moving themes of self-reliance, bereavement, and fresh starts.

Meri manages the uncertainty of finding companionship in a dating landscape that is very different from her previous years, while Christine struggles with the growing gap between her and her children. The episode reminds viewers why this show is still so captivating by deftly balancing humor and self-discovery with intimacy and sensitivity. It's a kind, candid look at how adult life keeps changing and how difficult it is for families to adjust.


What happened in Sister Wives Season 20 Episode 4?

This episode of Sister Wives delves into Meri's surprisingly open online dating experience and Christine's heartfelt farewell to her son Paedon. It combines lighthearted exploration with a deep connection, mirroring how both women on Sister Wives move through various phases of family and self-discovery.


Christine’s emotional talk with Paedon

Conversation between Christine and her son Paedon starts out lightheartedly over pot pie but soon becomes intensely emotional. While Paedon talks about his relocation to North Carolina and his impending military retirement, Christine grapples with the fact that her kids are becoming older. As she cherishes their independence and tenacity, she considers how difficult it is to watch them move on.

“Garrison was Paedon’s best friend. And Janelle’s lost a son and I lost a best friend,” Christine says, visibly emotional.

Christine's great sensitivity is evident in the conversation as she both mourns the loss that still hangs over the family and rejoices in her son's new beginnings. She acknowledges that she occasionally questions whether she has done enough as a mother. Her strength and warmth, however, come through in the end, highlighting the enduring relationship between mother and son in spite of change and distance as well as growth and healing.


Meri’s lighthearted dive into dating apps

Meri's plot, on the other hand, provides a much-needed dose of humor. She browses dating apps with a companion in tow, displaying a combination of snark and sincere interest. She responds to possible matches with a mix of skepticism and humor, making jokes about "cartoon villain" profiles and establishing firm limits on expectations and age differences. However, before the hilarity starts, Meri admits that she thinks dating apps are "dumb," yet they're essential for her to reopen herself.

“I feel like dating apps are stupid. Either that or most of the men on them are stupid,” Sister Wives star Meri quips, drawing laughs from her friend.

Meri exhibits self-awareness and confidence through comedy, signaling a new stage in her development. She is accepting the awkwardness that comes with starting over rather than jumping right into romance. After years of emotional control, the scene beautifully depicts her development as a woman rediscovering joy, companionship, and her own pace in love.


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Edited by Gouri Maheshwari