Why did 90 Day Fiancé stars Shekinah and Sarper get into an argument at the Tell-All?

Shekinah and Sarper. Image Source: Instagram /@shekinah.guven
Shekinah and Sarper. Image Source: Instagram /@shekinah.guven

It wouldn’t be a 90 Day Fiancé Tell-All without at least one relationship in meltdown mode, and this time, it was Shekinah and Sarper’s turn. The couple, who got married not too long ago, brought more tension than togetherness to the stage.

From surprise video reveals to confessions that made even the host shift uncomfortably, their segment offered an unfiltered look at what’s been happening behind closed doors. The ups and downs didn’t just happen over months, they flared up over holidays, hurt feelings, and some choice words that nobody’s forgetting anytime soon.

At one point, Shekinah’s voice cracked as she watched herself recount a lonely Christmas. Sarper, meanwhile, seemed tired but defensive, insisting their fights start small but spiral fast.

“Right now,”

He admitted,

“me and Shekinah, we are just like enemies to each other.”

A never-before-seen video opens the floodgates for the 90 Day Fiancé couple

The Tell-All kicked off with a gut-punch: a video Shekinah had sent to the producers during a particularly rocky moment. The never-aired clip showed her sitting alone, explaining,

“It’s Christmas morning… He’s gone. He left his ring and his airtag.”

It was raw, it was quiet, and it said more than a shouting match ever could. Sarper had taken off his ring and vanished during the holidays.

“Merry Christmas to us,”

Shekinah had added with a shaky voice.

This was less than a month into their marriage. The host asked the question everyone was thinking: Why the dramatic exit?

Sarper explained he didn’t just walk out, he was kicked out.

“She kicked me out of the house, so I left the ring and I went out.”

He stayed in a rental apartment for ten days. And while he claimed the reason wasn’t huge, the emotional fallout said otherwise.

That’s 90 Day Fiancé reality, unfiltered.


Small fights, big consequences

Digging deeper, the host asked what led to the blowout. Sarper admitted the problem wasn’t any one big thing.

“It’s not cheating, nothing,” he said.
“It starts with the small things and it gets bigger and we forget what was it about.”

According to him, arguments spiral fast.

“I’m yelling at her, and it turns into, ‘You’re not behaving well to me.’ And it’s my fault. I have to be more calm, but I cannot. It’s not my character.”

Shekinah didn’t let that slide without adding her perspective. Whenever they argue, she said, Sarper repeats the same threats. He tells her he’ll go back to his country, and be with other women there.

That pattern, she said, cuts deep.

“I feel like he doesn’t truly love me if he can so easily get up and leave.”

Breaking points and brutal words

Behind the scenes, both opened up to the camera separately, and neither painted a hopeful picture.

Sarper described them as “enemies” at this point.

“She doesn’t want to sit with me. I can feel that. That feeling sucks.”

Shekinah, meanwhile, looked emotionally drained.

“I just feel like I can’t make him happy. Nothing I do can make him happy. And he’s not a supportive partner. Period.”

She got teary as she admitted she was having a moment.

“I’m not okay.”

Then came the final blow. Sarper looked straight at her and said,

“You will lose me because of you, and you will regret like a dog.”

Even for a show like 90 Day Fiancé, where emotions run high, this was heavy.


Can they find their way back?

The host tried to soften the moment, offering kind words about hoping they find peace in their marriage. But neither Shekinah nor Sarper seemed particularly hopeful. Their expressions said it all.

After seeing how far things have unraveled, fans of 90 Day Fiancé are now left wondering if the couple’s love story has already reached its final chapter.

Throughout their time on 90 Day Fiancé, these two have shown passion, volatility, and deep cracks in their communication. Now, with only weeks of marriage under their belt and a string of unresolved issues ahead, it’s clear they’re on shaky ground.

They’ve survived long-distance, culture clashes, and judgment, but the real challenge might just be surviving each other. And if they can’t learn to communicate without going to extremes, this marriage may not survive the 90 Day Fiancé spotlight much longer.

Edited by Sezal Srivastava