“You can’t OUT someone” — 90 Day Fiancé fans slam Tell All segment focused on Stevie’s private life

Stevie and Mahdi from 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 | Image via TLC
Stevie and Mahdi from 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 | Image via TLC

During the 90 Day Fiancé Tell All part 1, viewers noticed that the tone was off-key as soon as Stevie's personal life was brought back into the spotlight. The program, which was supposed to explore her personal issues, went off course and revealed personal information that many believe went beyond reality TV drama and into an intrusive area. Her identity and past were highlighted by the producers in a way that made the audience uncomfortable.

Stevie was subjected to delicate questions on her s*xual orientation, relationships, and the reasons behind her decision to keep some personal affairs hidden during the Tell All. As the hosts and other cast members questioned viewers about things they believed Stevie had no duty to disclose, the conversation swiftly turned from inquisitive to invasive. What started out as an apparently candid conversation felt more and more contrived and awkward, highlighting Stevie's weaknesses for dramatic effect.

The show's strategies for discussing her private life to these lengths were criticized by fans in a wave of backlash. Many said that prying into her private choices violated her right to privacy and identity autonomy; their accusations of sensationalism and unethical behavior sparked even more online criticism. After this, watch for the complete outrage and reactions.

An admirer of 90 Day Fiancé posted,

"You can't OUT someone! Y'all forcing Stevie to talk about her s*xuality when she's not ready has driven people into dark places and even suicide.. The #TellAll is not a safe space. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceTellAll"

Another fan wrote,

"Omg, Stevie has said no twice now. Whether they choose to believe her is separate, but she has answered the question #90DayFiance"
"Give it a rest! I don’t think Stevie is bisexual. Women can appreciate the beauty in the female form without s*xualizing it. It seems taboo to men and male centered women. #90DayFiance #90dayfiancetellall," a viewer defended.

More fans of 90 Day Fiancé shared their opinion on the Tell All segment.

A tweet read,

"Stevie does not need to tell the world her s*xuality. They need to STOP asking her, she’s clearly uncomfortable. Maybe she is unsure herself! Geez #90DayFianceTellAll"
"Unpopular opinion, but Stevi doesn't owe ANYONE an answer whether she has been intimate w/a woman in the past!! She's married to Mahdi. That's her partner. MOVE ON. Did anyone ever stop to think that she is from southern MS and might not wanna be outed?! #90DayFiance," an X user commented.

Stevie got questioned about her orientation in 90 Day Fiancé Tell All Part 1

In part 1 of 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Tell All, a segment intended to clarify Stevie's relationship history instead devolved into an intense interrogation. A potentially heartwarming moment was turned into intense questioning as the hosts and cast focused on extremely sensitive subjects Stevie had decided to keep private rather than the couple's journey.

They inquired about the reasons for her decision to keep her s*xuality a secret and about her previous relationships. And the result? Instead of feeling sympathy, viewers felt uneasy. In addition to the obvious conflict, they flooded social media with criticism not only towards the rest of the cast but also the production.


Stay tuned to watch part 2 of 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Tell All on TLC on June 29, 2025.

Edited by Zainab Shaikh