What message did Lyle Menendez send to 'Monsters' star Cooper Koch? Actor recalls red carpet conversation

Cooper Koch, who plays Erik Menendez in the Netflix series Monsters, discussed a personal message he received from Lyle Menendez. The actor shared the note while walking the red carpet at the 2025 Emmy Awards in Los Angeles.

Koch has been nominated for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Limited or Anthology Series for his role as Erik. During an interview with Entertainment Tonight, he also talked about the brothers’ recent parole denials.

The Menendez brothers were found guilty in 1989 of murdering their parents, José and Kitty Menendez. They were later resentenced to 50 years to life, making them eligible for parole under California’s youthful offender law since they committed their crime before turning 26.

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Lyle’s message to Cooper Koch

Cooper Koch told Entertainment Tonight that Lyle sent him a note about his performance, which he read on the red carpet.

“He said to me, ‘For so many, what you brilliantly portrayed is their reality. The goal is not accolades. The goal is to bring awareness. We are stronger together. Love you, brother,’” Koch shared.

Cooper Koch said the message showed Lyle’s focus on awareness instead of recognition. He explained that Lyle and Erik remain hopeful even though they are denied parole.

Koch added, “Right now — unfortunately — they did not receive parole at their parole hearings, which is very sad.”

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Cooper Koch on parole denial and Erik’s future plans

Cooper Koch also shared his thoughts on the parole hearings. He mentioned that it's common for requests to be denied initially and that both brothers will have another opportunity.

“I’m just continuing to keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best and send them lots of love — especially also their family and all their supporters too,” he said.

The actor remembered earlier talks with Erik about life after prison. Koch told Variety that Erik wanted to become an advocate for others serving long sentences.

“He is going to be an advocate for other people who have L.W.O.P, which is life without parole. His life is going to surround making change in the prison system, , and I just think that is so beautiful.”

He mentioned that Erik thought the decision to release them could serve as an example. Koch said Erik once told him he wanted people to look back and say,

“We really made the right decision. Thank God we let them out.”

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Lyle Menendez’s message to Cooper Koch demonstrated how much the brothers appreciate his support. Koch has been open about his ongoing contact with Erik and Lyle and continues to speak publicly on their behalf. Although parole was denied this year, both brothers will have additional opportunities in the future. Koch expressed hope for change and believes the Menendez brothers remain dedicated to using their voices if they are released.