Below Deck Season 12 Episode 4: Captain Kerry shares insightful relationship advice with Barbara

Below Deck Season 12 Episode 4 aired on June 23, 2025. The latest episode of the Bravo show featured one more charter and more up-close and personal conversations between the crew.

One of the conversations was between Captain Kerry Titheradge and Barbara Kulaif. While she opened up about the struggles she went through in her past relationship, Captain Kerry also shared how things worked out for him.

The two were enjoying a meal during their conversation. Below Deck Captain Kerry also shared insights with Barbara and opened up to her about life and more. He recalled how he started exercising more and stopped drinking. Barbara talked about her ex-girlfriend while Captain recalled how he got himself out of a similar situation and has been working on himself.

Below Deck Season 12 Episode 4: Barbara Kulaif opens up about her past relationship

The recently released Below Deck Season 12 episode featured a heartfelt conversation between Captain Kerry and Barbara Kulaif. While having a meal together, Captain told Barbara to get the "fuel" as she had been working hard. She responded that she had never worked in a charter before, and that it was her first time.

"My girlfriend, I'd get one day off a week," said Captain.

He added:

"She worked for me when I was married."

Listening to the Captain, Barbara also shared about her past relationship. She revealed how she had been cheated on in her previous relationship. She noted having "so many bad moments" in her life. Amongst all of those moments, her last relationship was the one that "destroyed" Barbara.

Recalling that relationship, Below Deck star Barbara shared with the cameras:

"She was making plans with me like, oh, we're going to have a dog. We're going to have a baby. We're going to have every piece this day. And then she cheated on me."

Sharing more with the Captain, Below Deck star Barbara mentioned her girlfriend had cheated on her with a guy. He was their friend. She got emotional as she mentioned some of her friends had told her that there was something between her girlfriend and that friend.

"After everything happened. I don't think now I'm ready for a relationship. I don't trust anymore, you know. I don't know. It's just like maybe got trauma," said Barbara.

Listening to her, Captain Kerry also opened up about his past and how he got over the hard situations. He recalled that he stopped drinking and started to focus on his physical fitness.

Captain advised Barbara on how working on himself would make him "attract" the right kind of person.

"I got to stop drinking. I started exercising more. And that's where I'm changing myself. So I'm attracting the right kind of person. And you know what? You wouldn't be in this situation if you couldn't handle it," added Captain Kerry.

Agreeing with the Captain, Barbara said she also believed in the same. As he was done with his meal, he left, and their emotional conversation about their past ended.

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Fans can stream Below Deck Season 12 Episode 4 on Bravo.

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