Bridgerton: The mirror scene with Penelope is romantic, but also reflects problematic body image tropes

Nicola Coughlan as Penelope in Bridgerton (Image via Netflix)
Nicola Coughlan as Penelope in Bridgerton (Image via Netflix)

Bridgerton always knows how to give us something dramatic and swoon-worthy when it comes to love stories.

Season 3 gave fans one of the most talked-about scenes in the whole series. The mirror moment between Colin and Penelope was long-awaited by the viewers. They had been waiting for years to see this couple come together. And the scene was designed to make hearts race.

In this moment, Colin leads Penelope to a mirror. He tells her to look at herself as he confesses his feelings. The two share an intimate encounter, and their reflections capture everything. It is slow and emotional. It's meant to show that Penelope is finally being seen for who she is. And for many viewers, this was the perfect payoff. Especially, after so much longing and secret love on Penelope's side.

But not everyone saw it the same way. The scene is tender and romantic; there's no doubt in that. But it also stirred up bigger conversations. The use of the mirror is symbolic. And it brought up questions about how women’s bodies are shown and judged on screen. For some viewers, it felt more like a reminder of old body image tropes we have seen too many times before.

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Bridgerton: The mirror scene

The mirror scene in Bridgerton was supposed to be a turning point for Penelope. It was about passion and also about her finding confidence. The mirror was used to show that she could finally see herself as worthy of desire. And it works beautifully on one level. Colin looks at her with love, and she allows herself to believe it. There is vulnerability and softness in that moment, which fans of Bridgerton love.

However, there's another layer to this scene. The choice to make Penelope stand in front of the mirror carries an alternate meaning, too. Unlike other female leads, she has often been set apart in subtle ways because of her body. The show rarely called it out before. But the mirror makes it impossible to ignore. Some viewers could not help but see the scene through that lens.

Bridgerton might not have intended for the scene to be perceived this way. But it shows how much meaning and how complicated these tropes are. Mirrors in love scenes often suggest that a woman needs to be shown her beauty to believe she is attractive. And that can be powerful for some. But it can also feel patronizing for others. It creates a double meaning. One is associated with romance, and the other is associated with uncomfortable recognition.

The show tries to make Penelope feel special. But the scene also separates her from everyone else. It can convey the idea that she is different from the rest. That difference is shown as something Colin needs to point out and fix.

Instead of simply letting her exist in the same space of beauty and confidence as the other women, the mirror makes her feel like she has to be reassured. It suggests that she does not fit the usual beauty standards.

However, the mirror scene will probably remain one of the most memorable in Bridgerton. Moments like these often have layers. There are many ways to perceive it. It was, for some, the long-awaited moment when Penelope was finally adored without hiding. And for others, it was a bittersweet reminder that stories still frame women’s bodies in narrow ways.


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Edited by Parishmita Baruah