"Completely different realities": Love Is Blind: Italy's Alessandro A. opens up about the struggles he and Elisa faced

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Love Is Blind: Italy hosts Fabio Caressa and Benedetta Parodi | Image Source: Instagram/ @alessandro_bianchin

Love Is Blind: Italy Reunion featured Alessandro A. and Elisa reflecting on their time on the show.

The two talked about how things unfolded during their journey and how things didn't work out. The hosts also noted that their connection was quite strong in the beginning.

However, soon, the two discovered that they were not compatible with each other. As they shared their issues, the hosts asked whether they could have worked on solving them.

Love Is Blind: Italy's Alessandro A. shared that they could have been able to do that.

"We could have...we could've smoothen things out. We really could have. Let's say the thing...the main difference is the...our two completely different realities, mine and hers, of life in general. If you take two completely different people who come from two completely different realities, it's...it's hard for those two people to get along," shared Alessandro A.

Love Is Blind: Italy Reunion: Alessandro A. and Elisa open up about the differences in their daily lives, mindsets, and more

During the Love Is Blind: Italy Reunion, the host noted that Alessandro A. and Elisa's love "burned too hot, too fast, and fizzled." Elisa agreed with her.

She added that they couldn't face their problems.

"Let's just say that, unlike Alessandro and Hyoni's relationship, there was just no desire to face our problems, to understand the other person. I really care about Ale. Today, it's all water under the bridge, but I found myself in a position where I was completely uncomfortable being at home with him because of our different ways of being," shared Elisa.

She also recalled how she and Alessandro A. couldn't open up to each other about their issues. It was because their approach to everything was different.

"And so, if you see a block on the other side and you can't break it down, and you keep going and going and going, but you don't see anything on the other side anymore, at some point...you give up." added Elisa.

Further, they faced the question of whether they immediately felt the fundamental incompatibility.

Love Is Blind: Italy star Alessandro A. noted that they could have worked on their issues and solved them. However, his and Elisa's "different realities" made it harder. That was the reason why they were unable to move forward with each other in their relationship.

"Because I'm convinced that, in love, you have to find your similar version, that completes you, but there must be compatibilities, right?" asked Alessandro A.

The hosts recalled how Alessandro A. talked about the differences that were important during the pods phase. Elisa responded that despite being completely different, she and Alessandro A. felt everything strongly.

"Well, I mean, we did get along, objectively. And a lot, I think that was obvious to everybody," noted Elisa.

The two agreed that they couldn't find common ground. She noted that while the two had different mindsets and thoughts about certain things, they still tried to talk to each other about them as well.


To know more about Elisa and Alessandro's journey on the social experiment, fans can stream all the Love Is Blind: Italy episodes on Netflix.

Edited by Ritika Pal