"I tend to pull away": The Real Housewives of Orange County star Tamra talks to Eddie about their relationship

The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16 aired on October 16, 2025.

The latest episode of the Bravo show featured cast members, including Shannon Storms, Gretchen Rossi, Gina Kirschenheiter, Tamra Judge, Eddie Judge, Emily Simpson, and more.

One of the conversations featured in the episode was between Tamra and her husband, Eddie. The two talked about their daughter and her boyfriend. Soon, they discussed their relationship and Eddie told her to be more open.

When Eddie told Tamra that she should share about the things that hurt her, she responded that it would never happen. Later, in her private confession, The Real Housewives of Orange County star noted that she pulled away whenever she was hurt.

"I tend to pull away when things are hurting me. And Eddie gets really annoyed with it. He's like, just ask me for help. And I'm like, I don't want anybody to help me. I've always been like that," confessed Tamra Judge.

The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 19 Episode 16: Tamra and Eddie talk about asking for help and being more open

The latest The Real Housewives of Orange County episode featured Tamra Judge and her husband Eddie out on a lunch. Tamra told Eddie about their daughter, Sophia's boyfriend.

"I have a concern that now she does have a boyfriend, going to LA is gonna be a big fat no," shared Tamra.

In her private confession, she noted that being 19, individuals are unaware if their relationships were going to last. She asked Eddie what their situation would be if Sophia were to leave.

"I know we talked about moving out of the States, but I don't know how you feel about that," responded Eddie.

Soon, the two got into a conversation about who annoys whom. Eddie asked her whether they had a problem. She responded that their problem was that they didn't communicate with each other. As a result, it "explodes" all at once.

The Real Housewives of Orange County star told Eddie that they should have "one good fight" every six months.

"Usually you're drunk and that makes you come at me," said Eddie.

Listening to him, Tamra asked if she had a drinking problem. He noted that for their relationship purposes, she should never drink. He told her that she should be able to share with him about the things that hurt her.

"That's never gonna happen," she responded.

In her confession, Tamra opened up about the times when she got hurt. She recalled that she has the habit of pulling herself away during such situations. It results in Eddie getting annoyed. However, she added that she didn't want anybody's help.

Eddie told her that he was also like that and that he worked on improving himself.

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