Who was Todd Snider’s wife? Divorce and more about the singer amid hospitalization and arrest over verbally assaulting staff members 

Robert Earl Keen In Concert - Austin, TX - Source: Getty
Todd Snider At Robert Earl Keen In Concert - Austin, TX - Source: Getty

American singer-songwriter Todd Snider’s ongoing ‘High, Lonesome and Then Some 2025’ tour has been cancelled after he was hospitalized and arrested for verbally abusing staff members. Snider, 59, was married to visual artist and painter Melita Osheowitz for over a decade. They are now divorced.

According to CBS affiliate KUTV, the New Connection singer was a “victim of a violent assault outside of his hotel” on November 2, ahead of his show in South Salt Lake, Utah.

Subsequently, he visited Holy Cross Hospital in the city to seek treatment for his injuries. However, during discharge, Todd Snider reportedly got into a heated exchange with hospital staff, who, in turn, told him not to return. While the musician left the premises, he came back later and reportedly “threatened to kick” one of the staff members.

Following this, the local police took him into custody, charging him with two class B misdemeanors, including suspicion of criminal trespass and threat of violence, and a single infraction for disorderly conduct, according to a police affidavit obtained by KUTV.

Snider was released on November 3, less than a day after his arrest, according to People Magazine. He did not need to post bail, but signed a promise to appear before the court.


All you need to know about Todd Snider’s personal life

According to her website, Melita Osheowitz is a “self-taught painter” hailing from New York. She was raised in Frank Lloyd Wright’s planned Usonia Community in the suburbs of NYC.

Her artwork is inspired by the surrealist movement of the early 20th century and explores themes such as loss, rebirth, and hope. Osheowitz began her career in 2001 at The Arts Company in Nashville, Tennessee.

Later, her works were displayed at group and solo exhibitions and galleries across several U.S. states, including New York, Tennessee, Florida, Nevada, California, and Utah.

Currently, she is based in New York City, where her paintings are often shown at the Galleria d’Oro and Pen & Bush Gallery. Her Facebook bio states that she attended The Harvey School and the University of Vermont.

According to Nashville Scene, Todd Snider and Melita Osheowitz met at a drug and alcohol rehab center in the late 1990s. Later, during an early 2015 interview, the singer revealed that he and Melita had divorced the year before. Before that, he wrote about his love story in his 2014 memoir, I Never Met a Story I Didn’t Like.

During a May 2012 interview with the publication, Melita spoke extensively about her ex-husband, calling him “warm” and “supportive.”

“I don't know what it was. I just felt warm towards him. I just felt a connection. But I really did feel like, 'You're here to do this work, and this is frowned upon here. Sh*t, I'm in trouble!” she shared about their first meeting.
Osheowitz continued, “I was in a place in my life where I was fighting with myself about what I was gonna do with my artistic wants. I had really been putting a lot of that aside, just 'cause I grew up with the mentality of, 'Make sure you have stability — then if you want to do your art, do your art.' It was really nice to meet somebody who was ... just living exactly how they wanted to be.”

Todd Snider’s ex-wife also praised his musical skills, sharing that despite his “political” themes, his songs were about “relationships and how people treat each other.”

“I think he's just a really huge supporter of people, and people treating each other well… His relationships with all of the different people that he's worked with, whatever label or manager — he genuinely has these amazing experiences with people,” Melita noted.

During an October 2025 interview with Rolling Stone, Todd Snider shared that he has had a difficult personal life for the last decade, which inspired his recent music.

“It’s all heartache. I wouldn’t say I’m better, and I don’t think I’m going to get better, but the last decade was hard in my personal life. In the last couple of years, it’s gotten harder, and I felt like the title. I sat out here by myself and had, like, a dark night of the soul.”
Todd Snider with Tedeschi Trucks Band Perform At San Diego Civic Theatre - Source: Getty
Todd Snider with Tedeschi Trucks Band Perform At San Diego Civic Theatre - Source: Getty

He also talked about battling a “painful” spinal condition called stenosis, which he was diagnosed with in 2022. In 2016, he had to cancel one of his concerts due to back pain, painkiller addiction, and a subsequent rehab visit.


Todd Snider's record label, Aimless Inc., announced the cancellation of his tour via an Instagram post shared on his profile on Tuesday. It came hours after his release.

“We are heartbroken to announce the cancellation of the High, Lonesome and Then Some 2025 Tour dates. Ahead of Todd Snider's show in Salt Lake City, Todd sustained severe injuries as the victim of a violent assault outside of his hotel. Todd will be unable to perform for an undetermined amount of time,” the statement read.

The record label apologized for the cancellation and the inconvenience caused and thanked Snider's fans and followers for their understanding as he underwent medical care. The statement mentioned that information regarding new dates will be released soon.

Todd released his High, Lonesome and Then Some studio album on October 17. The accompanying tour had its first stop at Englewood, Colorado, on October 30 and was scheduled to make several stops before ending on November 16, according to PEOPLE.

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Edited by Priscillah Mueni