Who is Richard in Friends?

Last Modified Jan 28, 2025 04:02 EST
Who is Richard in Friends?
Richard Burke's first appearance on the American sitcom Friends. (Source: Warner Bros Studios)


Richard Burke, played by Tom Selleck is the attractive ophthalmologist who is close friends with Monica Geller's parents and is twenty-one years older than her. Richard and Monica’s relationship has been one of the main highlights of the show for quite some time.


The American comedy Friends was created by David Crane and Marta Kauffman. It aired on NBC from September 22, 1994, to May 6, 2004, lasting for 10 seasons with 236 episodes. The show centers on six Manhattan, New York City-based friends who are in their 20s and early 30s.


Richard’s Character in Friends


Richard had two kids, Timothy and Michelle Burke, and was married to Barbara, his high school sweetheart, for a long time before any of his appearances on the show. He eventually got to know Jack and Judy Geller and became good friends. Although Barbara and Richard finally got divorced, it's never made clear why. In addition, Richard is Henry's grandfather and the son of his daughter.


Read More: Who Played Monica on Friends


Richard’s Life in Friends


Richard's onscreen debut is in "The One Where Ross And Rachel...You Know". He has planned a party, and Monica and Phoebe cater it. His reaction when he sees how skinny she is implies that he hasn't seen her in years. He seems to prefer talking to Monica over taking care of his ophthalmologist's guests throughout the party.


Despite the fact that they are 21 years apart in age, Monica appears drawn to him. Monica is described by Phoebe as "so much the smitten kitten." Although she tries to deny it, she is caught when she admits that she has an eye appointment with him even though she is only getting her eyes checked.


Richard and Monica attempt to keep their relationship platonic during their eye visit, but they give in and share a passionate kiss. The two then begin dating and form a genuine relationship with each other.


Who is Richard in Friends?
Monica and Richard in Barry and Mindy's wedding. (Source: Warner Bros Studios)


Richard is eventually questioned by Monica about their plans. He imagines them in a happy marriage without children in Paris. However, Monica is eager to start a family of her own but avoids the topic since she thinks it would be awkward. She and Richard return to the topic at Barry and Mindy's wedding, but neither of them has changed their stance.


While dancing, Richard says he doesn't want to lose Monica and promises to have children with her if necessary. Monica was initially thrilled about it, but she soon came to the realization that she wants a child with someone who truly wants to, not just has to. As a result, the two split up.


Richard’s final appearance in Friends


It takes Monica months to recover from the break-up. However, the two cross paths a few times later in the series. When Richard finally shows up, he interrupts Chandler's plans to pop the question to Monica and declares that he is ready to marry and start a family. When he sees that they are content together and that Chandler is willing to give her the same thing, he gives in.


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Who played monica on friends

How many awards did friends win

Did any of the cast of friends ever date

FAQ's On Richard in Friends

  1. Since his own children have already reached adulthood, Richard tells Monica in "The One with Barry and Mindy's Wedding" that he does not want any more children, and they split up.


  1. Despite being 21 years apart in age, Monica Geller and ophthalmologist Richard Burke had a close relationship in the show.


  1. Tom Selleck plays the handsome ophthalmologist Richard Burke in American sitcom Friends.


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