Friends is a popular NBC sitcom created by David Crane and Marta Kauffman. It ran for 10 seasons from 1994 to 2004. The show revolves around the lives of six friends- Chandler, Monica, Ross, Rachel, Joey, and Phoebe- living in New York. It focuses on their lives, career, friendships, and relationships highlighting the ups and downs of life. Friends is one of the most iconic sitcoms as even though the show aired 30 years ago, people from all around the world still watch it.
Phoebe Buffay, played by Lisa Kudrow is one of the main characters of the show, known for her eccentric personality. Throughout the show, Phoebe has many love interests, and one of them is David (played by Hank Azaria), a scientist. David made his first appearance in season 1 where he fell in love with Phoebe but had to move to Minsk for work. They had a strong connection but they didn’t end up together in the end.
Phoebe and David’s Relationship: A Complete Timeline
David and Phoebe first met in season 1, episode 10 titled "The One with the Monkey." In the episode, Phoebe’s performance in Central Perk was disturbed by David and his friend. Phoebe asks him the reason for the disturbance for which he awkwardly explains that he was talking about how beautiful she was, and Phoebe likes it. In the same episode, their relationship quickly progresses and she even breaks the pact of “no date” for New Year's so that she can invite David to the party. Towards the end of the episode, David reveals that he had to leave for Minx for his research work so they ended their relationship there.
In season 7, episode 11 titled “The One with All the Cheesecakes”, David returns from Minsk but only for a day, Phoebe bumps into him and he asks her out on a date. Phoebe already had plans with Joey and didn’t want to ditch him, so she went to a restaurant with him, quickly wrapped up their monthly dinner date, and went to meet David. David wanted to tell Phoebe that he loved her but in his opinion, it would make it more difficult for him to say goodbye to her before leaving for Minsk again. They had an emotional goodbye.
In season 9, episode 6 titled “The One with the Male Nanny”, David returns to New York for his work for a few weeks and turns up at Phoebe’s house to meet her. This time Phoebe was already in a relationship with Mike but she lies to David that she is not seeing anyone. Later on she comes clean to him but they end up kissing and Mike walks in. Phoebe explains everything to Mike and assures him that this won’t happen again.
In the same season, David appears again in episode 22 titled “The One with the Donor”. This time Phoebe was single and was going to a party to show Mike that she moved on from him. On her way, she bumps into David and he tells her that he is back from Minsk permanently and will be living in New York. They talk to each other and Phoebe decides to go on a date with him instead.
The final appearance of David was in the final episode of season 9 titled “The One in Barbados”. David decides to propose to Phoebe on the advice of Chandler. The whole group heads to Barbados for Ross’s conference. Monica calls Mike to let him know that he should come to Barbados and talk things out with Phoebe because David is going to propose to her. Mike realizes his mistake and shows up at the hotel right when David is going to propose. Mike confesses his love to Phoebe and asks her to marry him; but she says no because she never wanted a proposal from him, she just wanted to know that they have a future together. On the other hand, David understands the situation and leaves for good.
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Why didn’t Phoebe and David end up together?
Originally, the creators planned to have Phoebe and David get together but when Mike was introduced in the show, audiences liked the pairing and wanted Phoebe and Mike to end up together. Mike played by Paul Rudd was well received by the audiences, and people liked Phoebe and Mike as a couple. Phoebe and Mike instantly shared a deep connection, they had a similar sense of humor and they were supportive of each other.
Although David and Phoebe reconnected multiple times, the timing and circumstances were not in their favor. When they started dating, David got the opportunity to go to Minsk for research, so he had to make a tough choice to leave Phoebe and choose his career. And when he returns to New York permanently Phoebe is already in love with Mike. Even though Phoebe didn’t end up with David, he played an important role in her character arc.
FAQs about Phoebe and David
A. Hank Azaria played the role of David in Friends.
A. David moved to Minsk for his research work.
A. Phoebe was originally supposed to end up with David.
A. Yes, as per the creator's original story, Phoebe was meant to end up with David.
